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Because eating well should not require
learning to tolerate your food.
It should still taste like a life you want to have
A REFLECTION ON LAST WEEK’S LIVE
"Bunny Food” Isn’t the Problem. Boring Food Is
Last week, we had a great CMC Live with Andrea Marcellus , CPT, Neuroplastician, fitness and wellbeing expert, talking about metabolism, insulin sensitivity, stress, fasting, and practical ways women can support their bodies through perimenopause and beyond.
Watch the full conversation with Andrea:
She also used a phrase that stuck with me: bunny food.
You know the plate. A pile of greens. A few raw vegetables. Maybe some grilled chicken. Dressing cautiously drizzled on the side. Technically virtuous. Emotionally bleak.
And I had to laugh, because I spent years working professionally as a chef in the wellness space.
Which means, depending on how you look at it, I have spent a very long time making bunny food. Except I never thought of it that way. Because when I build a meal for someone, I’m rarely thinking only about what nutrients need to be on the plate. I ’m thinking about what will make them want to eat it. Color. Crunch. Acid. Temperature. Freshness. Comfort.
A sauce that turns a simply cooked piece of chicken into something they actually want again tomorrow. That’s the part I think we often miss when we talk about healthy eating.
Satisfaction is not a nutritional afterthought
A meal can be nutritionally impeccable and still fail. It can contain protein, fiber, vegetables and healthy fats — and still leave you wandering into the kitchen twenty minutes later looking for something that feels like food. Because fullness and satisfaction are not exactly the same thing.
Satisfaction is color, texture, aroma, temperature, flavor and contrast. It’s also comfort, familiarity, culture and identity.
Making meals realistic might mean keeping a few high-impact flavor tools ready:
a great sauce, a creamy dip, something pickled, fresh herbs, chile crisp, seasoned nuts or seeds, something crunchy, something bright and acidic. None of that is complicated cooking.
It is knowing which small culinary moves create the biggest return. And that matters because food has to work on more than one level. It has to work physiologically, yes.
But it also has to work sensory-wise, emotionally, culturally and practically.
The person needs to recognize themselves in it. They need to be able to make it again. They need to open the refrigerator when tired and see a meal, not twenty more decisions.
Maybe the problem was never the salad. Maybe the problem was what we stripped away from it in the name of being healthy:
the pleasure,
the flavor,
the texture,
the generosity,
the identity,
and the expectation that we should actually enjoy eating. This is the part of wellness we’re increasingly interested in: not just what people are told to do, but what makes them actually want to do it.
Because eating well should not require learning to tolerate your food.
It should still taste like a life you want to have.
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